There are days when it feels like every single day is a repeat of the day before. I get up, get the kids ready, go to work, sit at a desk all day, go home, make dinner, and do it all again. Then there are the days that completely upset my schedule. There are the days when everything that can go wrong absolutely does.
This morning I woke up to a sick kid. My youngest, Damien, crawled into bed with his big sister Paige at some point in the middle of the night. Then, early this morning around 4am or so, he got sick, all over her and all over her bed. Yes, this is how my day started. So I got up and cleaned everything up. Safely tucked him back into his own bed and went back to sleep for an hour or so before I had to get ready for work.
I was lucky enough that my boyfriend had the day off. He offered to keep Damien so I dropped him off and got the other 2 to school. I thought I was golden. I had a sick kid and I managed to still make it to work. Yep, I jinxed myself.
Around 9:30 I get a call from my other son’s school. Owen had thrown up in class. Fantastic. I picked him up and dropped him off to my boyfriend as well. By 11:30, I received a call about Paige. Only I wasn’t so lucky with her. My boyfriend had an appointment and had taken my other two with him. So after all of the juggling and leaving work more than once, I had to call my boss and tell her I had to take the rest of the day off. I mean, I guess I should’ve just called off this morning. It would’ve made my day easier, but I was trying to be responsible. I was trying to do the right thing.
Let me say though, I literally have the most amazing boss. She is probably the only one I’ve ever met that legitimately means family comes first when she says it. Her response after letting me leave twice and then calling off was it’s ok sick kids happen. However, I’m getting a new boss soon. I start a new job in two weeks and I’m scared. I’m so so so scared that they will not be understanding.
When you’re a single parent, you have to worry about that. Don’t get me wrong, all parents worry about it, but when you’re a single parent, you’re the one that gets called, not the other parent and unless you have a fantastic parenting arrangement with your ex, they’re not going to leave their job to get the kid. It’s just one more thing that’s just a little harder. It’s one more thing to worry about. It’s one more thing to deal with on your own. Sometimes, it’s just exhausting. Some days you just want to pull your hair out, but you don’t. You make the best out of the situation and keep going.